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8 Genuine Signs He Wants A Serious Relationship With You

  Not sure if the guy you’re dating is interested in a serious relationship with you? These signs are the biggest giveaways you need, to know the truth!

A guy will only give his time and energy to someone he sees a future with. Sometimes, a guy may show mixed signals, leading you to believe that he wants a relationship with you when really, he simply wants something that’s no-strings-attached.
You should try to be honest with yourself if you see red flags early on that indicate that he is not truly interested in going further with you. However, there are ways to tell if things are leading to a relationship, or simply just friends with benefits. [Read: Learning to accept love after experiencing trauma]
How to know if a guy really wants a serious relationship with you
There are many signs that can be a good giveaway that a guy is indeed serious about you, but these 8 signs are foolproof ways to know for sure if he wants to be exclusive with you or not.
#1 He tells you about his goals. A guy who is serious about you will tell you about his goals and his dreams. This is his way of letting you know what he wants to achieve in life, and of seeing if you are both going down a similar life path.
If he does not tell you about his aspirations, then he probably wants to keep things simple and does not see things lasting for a long time. Oftentimes, a guy will give you just enough information about himself to keep you guessing if he does not see a future with you.

Sharing goals may seem like a minor task, but it is his way of opening up and letting you in. One main focus in life for most guys is reaching their highest potential and having a partner that is supportive. Also, guys are very expressive and they are more about taking action than talking about it. This is a sure sign that he takes you seriously and is looking to build a relationship with you. If you ask him about his goals and he keeps the conversation just at surface level, then maybe he is just not that into you. 
#2 He introduces you to friends and family. Mentioning you or introducing you to his family and friends is one of the best indicators that he wants to be exclusive with you. When a guy is not serious about someone, he will not take the time to integrate them into his world.
When he introduces you to his friends and family, make sure you pay attention to the way he introduces you to them. Nothing better clarifies whether or not he wants something serious than him telling them about you, and what you mean to him. [Read: Does he still loves you? 10 Signs Indicating That Your Partner No Longer Loves You]
#3 He expresses his feelings freely. When a guy sees a future with you, he will let his guard down and express his feelings to you. He will not hold back about the way he feels about you and what he thinks of you. When he gets to know you and his mushy side starts to show, then you are definitely heading down the path of commitment.
It takes a lot for a guy to be emotional, and it is a true sign of trust when he shows you his emotional side. When a guy sees you as just a fling, then he will treat you as just a fling. There are usually no gray areas with guys, and they are up front about what they are looking for when it comes to dating.
Additionally, pay attention to not only his words, but also his actions. The saying remains true that actions speak much louder than words. If he says he likes you, but does not contact you or try to spend time with you, then it is obvious that he is playing games with you.

On the other hand, if he says he likes you and shows it, then he is taking the steps to truly build a foundation with you. You should never have to ask someone how he or she feels about you, because they should express it freely.
#4 He includes you in his future. Another great sign that he wants a relationship with you is if he includes you in his future plans. If he begins to say ‘we’ this or ‘we’ that, then he wants to get serious with you. A guy who does not see himself with someone will not visualize himself with the person he is just dating to pass the time. Yes, guys will date women just for fun, and of course, for sex. Say, for instance, he includes you in his travel plans for the upcoming year without you asking, then clearly he wants to make memories with you.
No one knows what his or her future holds, but we all continue to plan for it anyway. Guys are comfortable with going into the world alone, with just their friends and family. If a girl comes along that is unique and intriguing, then he will want to keep her around. As soon as a guy can see a future with someone, he will start to include them in everything. He will include you in his business plans or ideas; he will include you in family gatherings, and so forth. [Read: There is only one way. Only love!]
#5 He spends a lot of time with you. Guys like people, places, and things that are easy to be around. If he enjoys your company and digs your vibe, then he will always make time for you. Even if it is just to see your face for a second during a video chat in the middle of the day, that is still making time for you.
You see, a guy will not take time out of his busy schedule for someone he does not care about. Guys are practical, and if spending time with you makes him feel...(read more HERE)
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